No matter what ethnicity you are or what culture you are raised in, you are expected to learn the proverbs and idioms of your native language in school. This is because these phrases give you meaningful insights on almost any aspect in life, including the path to becoming a better person and living a happier life.
Growing up as a Malaysian Chinese, I have learned more Chinese idioms than I can remember, and some of which are just so meaningful that I feel a strong urge to share with other non-Chinese people. I believe that every culture has its own way of expressing thoughts creatively which will give others a new perspective about life.
Below are five Chinese idioms that I would like to share with everyone as insights for becoming a better person in life.
The literal meaning is actually “thinking of the source of the water when drinking it”.
You might have guessed it. The underlying meaning of this idiom is to…
Always remember the people who have helped you.
And by that, it not only refers to that friend who gave you a ride back home, but also your parents and teachers. These are the people who have contributed to your life significantly; they helped you become who you are now, achieve what you have achieved, and grow stronger than ever before.
This means that everyone has something that you can learn about, be it their attitude, knowledge in a certain topic, or habits. Therefore…
We must be humble and try to learn the good things from others.
This idiom has several values that it tries to emphasize. It not only teaches people to be humble and not arrogant, but to always continue learning. The world is large and we can’t learn everything. However, the best thing we can do is to keep on learning to improve ourselves constantly.
Again, let’s start with the literal meaning – a person plants a tree and his next generation rests under it. This idiom is interesting as it can be understood in two different meanings. One, it advises us to protect and preserve the environment so that people of the future generations can live a healthier life. Second, it teaches us to work hard so that our successors can benefit from what we’ve achieved.
So, basically the two meanings have the same concept, that is…
Whatever you do, always think of our next generation.
“A tree wants to stop but the wind won’t stop blowing, a child wants to take care of his parents but they are no longer there.” You might’ve gotten the meaning. It’s about advising children to…
Always love and take good care of your parents when they are still around.
The Chinese community always prioritize love and respect towards parents more than any other value.
And where Westerners would always move out from their parents’ house once they are an adult, Chinese tend to stay with their parents if they have the chance. However, no matter whether we are staying with our parents or not, it is important to love, cherish, and respect them as they were the ones who gave life to us and raised us.
This means “one can achieve anything or solve any problem if he is dedicated enough to do it”. It actually comes from a story in which a hunter shot an arrow into a rock that he thought was a tiger. He didn’t believe he could do such a thing so he tried again, but failed even after several attempts. People couldn’t understand why this happened so they asked a scholar in which he answered, “If one is sincere enough, even something as hard as a golden rock would crack open.”
We tend to blame others or the circumstance whenever we fail to do something, but how often do we take our lack of dedication and skills into account? Remember, it is alright to fail, as long as you learn something from the experience.
With the right skills and enough devotion, we can achieve almost anything. The sky is the limit!
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My name is Cha Kah Ying. I am currently pursuing a bachelor’s degree in psychology in Open University Malaysia. I love writing because it is a powerful tool not only to educate others, but to inspire them.