If you don't like where you are, and you want to create powerful change, there is one very important first step before you start taking any action.
Whatever your situation is right now, own it like you chose it.
“Choosing it” empowers you to be in acceptance of “what is”, so that you free up all your precious energy to move forward into whatever changes you wish to make.
If you don't wholeheartedly accept the present moment as it is, you're resisting it and that simply wastes that precious energy and your time. It will end up diluting whatever action you take, and slow down your ability to step forward into the powerful and positive change you really want!