How to Make Intuitive Decisions, Not Fearful Decisions

Need to make a decision and worried you'll make the wrong one?

Unsure whether it's your intuition or your fear speaking to you?

In this audio below are powerful and practical steps to help you make intuitive decisions to follow your heart.

It's time to rise above fear, anxiety, worry and the endless “what if?” statements that make you hesitate.

Get a pen and paper ready as this is an interactive exercise and you'll be writing your responses to these questions to support whatever decision you are seeking to make…

With love, Bernadette

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8 Responses

  1. Bernadette, I love this post so much!! I have been following your blog for about a year now and I can’t tell you how many times you’ve helped me on my journey. I always feel so inspired after reading your posts and listening to your vlogs.

    I have a question though. I did the 10 steps and I think I am really being called in a certain direction (to continue to write daily on a blog that I have set aside for a year and someday publish a book.) But the concern with following my heart is that as a young mother of three I have very little time and the small time I have to myself is often used to dabble in different interests, passions, and hobbies. I have so many talents and interests. I am afraid of giving myself wholly to this new path for fear I will lose interest in this new path and jump to another. It seems like all I do is jump from passion to passion. It’s unnerving and yet satisfying at the same time. Do you have any suggestions for me in where to go from here?

    1. Hi Jamie, so lovely to connect with you and thanks for your comments and sharing. From what you have shared in your message, the main point that stands out to me is this…. boiling down the situation to the root issue “I AM AFRAID OF GIVING MYSELF WHOLLY TO THIS NEW PATH FOR FEAR I WILL LOSE INTEREST”. So… I can hear that you are judging yourself and your past experiences of “all I do is jump from passion to passion”. This is now stopping you from following your intuition and acting on your inspiration at the present moment. 1) the past is not relevant. It is memory and doesn’t impact the now moment unless your mind gives it that power 2) trying different passions and exploring/adventuring/testing/experimenting to see what you enjoy is NOT negative or bad or jumping around… it is you playing with life to see what feels good and society has conditioned you to believe that is wrong and you “should” have done it some other way. You are not other people, you are unique, and your intuition will guide you. Each path, each passion, each experiment with life teaches you something new about yourself, and helps your unfolding journey. 3) There will be something available to you in fully committing to this path, if that is what your instinct is telling you to do. There may be learning available, expansion, opportunity, abundance, contribution…. something, and you will only know by following the instinct to try it. When we stand on the precipice of possibility it always feels both unnerving and exciting! My suggestion… trust your own instinct and don’t judge yourself or the present moment based on the past. Life is short. Play and have fun! Love, B. PS I hear that you are a busy woman with children and many passions. You have the ability to juggle and to use the spare time you do have to try different things. At some stages of your life you may dabble in many interests, at other times you may feel drawn to commit mainly to one thing…. there is no right or wrong 🙂

  2. Hi Bernadette, I was listening to your video last night as I have a big decision to make career wise. I’ve been offered a job elsewhere which will take me to a different direction to where I am at. I feel that I am really in front of that fork you are talking about. There is fear in both directions – current job (fear or being stuck) or new job (fear of unknown and being unsure of my capabilities). But your point about ‘running away from negative’ or ‘going into something positive’ is a great tip and it made it clear – accept the new job. The next step is to flourish in this new job.

    1. Hi Anne, what an exciting time for you! Congratulations and it’s wonderful to hear you feel clear and empowered about the decision you’ve made. Wishing you every success with your new direction! B 🙂

  3. Hi Bernadette, thank you for all that you do. Your advice is wonderful. I’m really struggling however to tune into my intuition. I don’t know the difference between my head and my heart. I constantly get messages but I can’t decipher whether its from my soul of from my fear. I question it as I know my head rules me most of the time. Two years ago I got married and left my country to live with my husband in his country. Ever since I have struggled, I get so sad and upset when really I have lots of new opportunities. I get mad for feeling down, but this ‘not being truly able to enjoy something’ has plagued my entire life. And now my husband is having a wonderful time with his new job im jealous and angry. He works away from home and I have to visit him at the weekends. I gave up my job to try and change my life for the better but now I’m not sure that was the right thing. I’m following your steps but not making much sense.

    Any advice would be grateful. Much love to you and thank you. X

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