There are 3 things that can make you not trust yourself, and pull you off your path in life. So in this Daily Inspiration video, I'm sharing how to ensure that doesn't happen to you!
It's SO important that you learn to trust yourself, to trust your intuition, your decisions, and the goals and dreams that inspire you. If you don't, you suffer a life influenced by fear, everyone else's expectations, and you miss out on your fullest potential.
There is a highest path for you in this life. A design that sees you living it up, doing all that you're capable of, and enjoying everything that comes from that.
BUT… it entirely rests upon you zoning into your inner knowing, and zoning out noise around you that might make you wavier, wobble and fall off that path.
3 Tips to Trust Yourself & the Path You're On
1. The Only Approval You Need is Your Own!
The only approval you need for whatever path you're on, is your own. Don't look for other people to buy into what you're doing, to approve of you or to validate your choices and direction. Blaze your own trail. Zone into your intuition, lock onto that inner knowing, and let it guide you as a compass for your unique life path. That path doesn't have to make sense to anyone else! And perhaps often it won't!
2. Don't Take Other People's Paradigm Onboard
When other people share their opinions of what you “should” and “shouldn't” do, remember that it's coming out of their own worldview. Their opinion is not truth, it's just opinion, based on everything THEY have been through in their own life (how they were raised, their own education and experiences, their own unique failures and successes, their own cultural conditioning, their own fears, beliefs and thoughts). If you buy their viewpoint as your truth, you'll end up living their life path not yours!
So when people tell you their own view, their concerns, their fears, their perspective of risks, their opinion of what will or won't work, what you should or shouldn't do…
- Say thank you
- Smile and nod
- If it's constructive and useful, see what value you can take from it and apply to your own path, but TRUST YOUR INTUITION first and foremost
- If it's negative, deflect it and keep on moving
3. Be Conscious of Who You Share With
Your intuition is sacred, it's your soul speaking to you. Your goals and dreams are to be cherished. Choose wisely who you share these things with. Not everyone has qualified the right to be that close to your heart. And not everyone s equipped to be supportive. So if you have Negative Nellies in your life, who have proven to you that they are not supportive, it's valid to not share with them, and instead to seek out positive and like-minded people who will lift you up.
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Never a truer statement spoken! Remember this if anyone gets up in your face telling you that something can't be done, or that it's im-POSSIBLE. Ignore them and carry on blazing your freaking awesome trail forward. And, let's keep it real, if ever you find yourself accidentally telling someone else that something can't be done, give yourself a friendly "shhhhh" (let them rock out whatever they're doing, and remember it adds no value to judge another human being, it only pains their path in life). Stand for POSSIBILITY and POSITIVITY. Love, Bernadette ***** #thedailypositive #teampositive #positive #positivity #positivethinking #positivevibes #positivevibesonly #positivequotes #positivethoughts #positiveenergy #positivepeople #positiveaffirmations #positivemind #positivelife #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #positivemindset #positiveattitude #positivevibration #positivevibrations #positivevibe #positiveliving #positivepsychology #positivityiskey #bodypositivity #powerofpositivity #positivityonly
With love, Bernadette