10 Statements Everyone Needs to Hear

Dale Partridge
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Mark Twain famously said, “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Great for you Mark Twain, but I don’t think many people can live off of 6 compliments per year!

A few years ago my wife and I read The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Not too long into our read, it was obvious mine was “Words of Affirmation” – positive statements from others which affirm the good qualities we carry. But we forget how powerful a few words can be in the lives of others.

Here is my theory. It's not that we don't desire to share positive affirmations with our friends, family, or colleagues – it's that we either:

  1. Simply forget to do it
  2. We don't know what to say
  3. It feels awkward

With that being said, I took the liberty of making this easier for all of us – to remind you, to make it convenient on knowing what to say, and to affirm you that awkward is over-rated 🙂

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Here are 10 Statements Everyone Needs to Hear

Challenge: As you read this list, I want you to write down (or at least think of) one person for each of the 10 statements below. Then email them 🙂

1. You've made me a better person –  Who has helped you on your personal journey's of emotion, behavior, and maturity?

2. I've looked up to you – Who is someone you admire? Someone with a character and integrity you hope to find in yourself someday?

3. Thanks for being there for me – Who has been there for you through thick and thin? Sat with you as you've cried, listened to your struggles, and has never left your side.

4. I'm so proud of you – Who have you seen overcome a difficult situation? Or someone who has succeeded at something you appreciate?

5. I love spending time with you – Who do you have the most fun with? Someone who brings out the positive qualities in you, who makes you laugh, and leaves you feeling valued.

6. You're the only person I can talk to – Who is your special person? The one who truly knows you. Let them know how exclusive and meaningful their friendship is to you.

7. Your so good at that – Everyone is good at something. Think of a friend whose talents go unappreciated and let them know you think it's awesome.

8. I love you – We don't say this enough. Remember, people die all the time. Don't let someone you love go without knowing it.

9. You amaze me – I love this statement. There is nothing more honoring and humbling to amaze a fellow friend, family member, or colleague. 

10. That's my favorite thing about you – Think of someone close to you. Someone whose personality adds value to you or the people around them.

What other statements should be added this list? Let me know in the comments below.

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38 COMMENTS

  1. Right On! Good Work! Nice Thinking! Gnarly Idea! High Five! You Can Do It! Way to Go! You’re Not Alone! I Am Rooting for You! Jesus Loves You! Group Hug! I am Praying With You! God Bless You! You-Are-That-Hero! Gimme A Hug! Smokin’ Job! You Look So Nice! Hubba Hubba..Beep Beep! You Are Smashing! I Thank God for You! Being With You is Better Than A Mountain Dew! You Are So Smart! You’re The WALL●E to My EVE (“Eeeeeee….va?”)! You Make Me Laugh! I Like Your Smile! I Feel Safe With You! I Like Being With You! I Like Praying With You! I Love Worshiping Jesus With You! I Like You So Very Much! No Worries, I Got Yo’ Back! I Enjoy Helping You! You Are A Dedicated Person! Your Haiku is Wonderful…It’s Perfectly OK That You Are Not Japanese…Neither Am I! I Like Your Skin Color/Hair/Eyes/Nose/Hands/Knees/Ankles! I Like Your Talents! Thank You for Being Generous! Thank You for Being Sunshine to Me! Your Compassion to Others is Galactic in Size! Your Wisdom is Needed & Refreshing! I Love Watching VeggieTales & SuperBook With You! Cat Naps With You Are Heavenly!…That reminds me…I have to wake the Rooster tomorrow morning…*bunny yawn*…until next time…

  2. Right On! Good Work! Nice Thinking! Gnarly Idea! High Five! You Can Do It! Way to Go! You’re Not Alone! I Am Rooting for You! Jesus Loves You! Group Hug! I am Praying With You! God Bless You! You-Are-That-Hero! Gimme A Hug! Smokin’ Job! You Look So Nice! Hubba Hubba..Beep Beep! You Are Smashing! I Thank God for You! Being With You is Better Than A Mountain Dew! You Are So Smart! You’re The WALL●E to My EVE (“Eeeeeee….va?”)! You Make Me Laugh! I Like Your Smile! I Feel Safe With You! I Like Being With You! I Like Praying With You! I Love Worshiping Jesus With You! I Like You So Very Much! No Worries, I Got Yo’ Back! I Enjoy Helping You! You Are A Dedicated Person! Your Haiku is Wonderful…It’s Perfectly OK That You Are Not Japanese…Neither Am I! I Like Your Skin Color/Hair/Eyes/Nose/Hands/Knees/Ankles! I Like Your Talents! Thank You for Being Generous! Thank You for Being Sunshine to Me! Your Compassion to Others is Galactic in Size! Your Wisdom is Needed & Refreshing! I Love Watching VeggieTales & SuperBook With You! Cat Naps With You Are Heavenly!…That reminds me…I have to wake the Rooster tomorrow morning…*bunny yawn*…until next time…

  3. I love the Five love languages. My husband and I listened to it on audio together. Made a huge difference in our marriage. Thank you for what you do. You are uber inspiring

  4. I love the Five love languages. My husband and I listened to it on audio together. Made a huge difference in our marriage. Thank you for what you do. You are uber inspiring

  5. I really need these words to cheer me up for I am currently mourning for the loss of my grandmother…

  6. I really need these words to cheer me up for I am currently mourning for the loss of my grandmother…

  7. I’ll be passing this on to clients (I’m a divorce attorney who doesn’t like divorce!) – while they apply broadly, spouses will especially benefit from taking note!

  8. I’ll be passing this on to clients (I’m a divorce attorney who doesn’t like divorce!) – while they apply broadly, spouses will especially benefit from taking note!

    • WTF? Are you so completely homophobic that you can’t see a picture of two women hugging and smiling without instantly thinking they’re lesbians? Jesus, you need some serious mental health counseling.

  9. I really, really enjoyed this article and I agree with it. However, #7 should say, “YOU’RE so good at that…” I’m normally not a grammer nazi, but articles should be proof read!

    • …says the one who misspelled “grammar” and split the word proofread into two words. 🙂

    • Truly an excellent read.
      Ha! There are actually a few typos I couldn’t help but notice (#2 extra you and #10 who’s not whose)
      I would happily work with the team at The Daily Positive. Employ me? I’m really good at editing 🙂 (Hehe! Self-encouragement) 😉

  10. I really, really enjoyed this article and I agree with it. However, #7 should say, “YOU’RE so good at that…” I’m normally not a grammer nazi, but articles should be proof read!

    • …says the one who misspelled “grammar” and split the word proofread into two words. 🙂

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