Humans suck at breakups!

We've done everything from throwing tv's out of windows and embarrassing ourselves through late night texting to seeking revenge and stalking our ex on Facebook. So let's take a step back and look at breakups; but not from a pop culture standpoint rather from an emotionally healthy perspective.

What does a healthy breakup look like? How do you process? How do you communicate? But even more important, what do you avoid. To be honest, I've probably done all of these at some point in my life. They weren't my proudest moments, but it happened. 🙂

Here are the 7 Things You Never Do After a Breakup

Pretend You're Fine

I think this tendency is driven from the “stupid” part of our brains. We must STOP pretending that we cannot be hurt. We can't avoid it, we all feel pain. It's part of our anatomy. Instead, punch a pillow, scream at your house, yell at your neighbors cat :). Cry. You too, men. You don't need to cry in public or at work, but if you feel like crying, do it. Smart people call this process “grieving” and it's proven to be the fastest and healthiest way to recover. Let's stop pretending and kill the numbness.  Your life of true, healthy emotion is waiting.

Try to be “Just Friends”

After BreakupsPeople can almost never turn a  breakup into healthy friendship, and until you’re okay with the idea of your ex dating someone new — and vice versa — you’re not ready to be friends. It's important to create intentional space and let yourself grieve the end of the relationship. If your ex is pushing to be your pal, stand your ground. Right now, you’re not looking for a friend who looks exactly like the person you just broke up with.

Seek Revenge

Don't damage their stuff, kidnap their dog, or cancel their credit card. If you share an apartment be a responsible adult and work through the division of your stuff with peace. Even if you've been betrayed and broken. Maybe even cheated on. Revenge only feeds into your bitterness, stoops you to their level, and it offers no healing. Focus on people who make you happy and lean into forgiveness. It's the only way out.

Sleep Together

Don't do it. In our broken state we give into our need for intimacy. This is not the way. People think it will help soften the pain. But in reality, relationships are like a drug. There is only one way to quit and that's, cold-turkey. Remember, there was never a person on their death bed who said, “I wish I would of slept with my ex one more time.”

Stalk them Online

The social media world has really made this tough. I always tell people never post anything about your breakup online. No matter how vague or harmless it might seem. Secondly, never look at your ex's profiles. Unfriend, unfollow, and block. There is nothing like a late night photo of your ex on a date to completely ruin your week. Fight the urge. Fast from social media for a few weeks. What ever it takes.

Get a Haircut or Tattoo

I had a friend once tell me, “never make a bold decision in a valley only on the mountain top.” There is nothing more obvious to the world that you don't know how to properly deal with your pain than a new haircut, a new style, and a tattoo. Don't buy a motorcycle, don't leave the country, and don't move. Wait at least 30 days before you make any big decisions. I like to think after a breakup you are legally “emotionally insane”. Even though hair grows back, your bad pho-hawk might bruise your already broken confidence.

Give up

I'll never find him. I'm not good enough. I'm ugly. Don't let these statements hit your mind. It's normal to be upset and to feel bad. But don't lose hope. Learn the difference from being upset for a few weeks and depression. Stay around people and embrace your singleness. Be excited that you are one step closer to finding your match.

What stupid thing have you done after a breakup?


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51 thoughts on “7 Things You Never Do After a Breakup

  1. charles says:

    I stole his clothes. Not because i wanted them, but because it was what he valued most. Not trust, friendship and love, but clothes and what those clothes portrayed to other people. He cried over his clothes, but showed no emotion over being a lying cheating spineless pratt. I was mad – he had disappointed me so much, broke my trust in human nature and I was soooo annoyed with his superficial nature. If i knew then what i know now i would have dropped him sooner or suggested counselling for his insecurities, but insted i stole his clothes.

  2. Kimberly says:

    Ohhhh, I wish I had seen this before my break-up!!!! Anyhoooo, I guess I could have been the poster child for this list because I pretty much did them all! The thing that stands out the most though is that forgiveness is truly the only way out, not so much for the other person’s sake but for your own healing!!! Forgiveness is not something your sore & broken heart wants to do, it definitely is an act of will. Once I forgave, I was relieved of #’s 1, 2, 3, & 5, then I was able to get #7 straightened out! Bottom line is you live…and learn. Thanks for the encouraging & positive list(s) Dale!

  3. wendy says:

    after 39 years of marriage I am broken and I am the one who left, it seems he was sucking the life out of me. I miss him don’t know why, he wont change and we
    tried to stay friends this isn’t working so I will heed the advise of going cold turkey my friends have told me to do this also it must be what needs to be done, I will now try this….

  4. Rebekah says:

    I remember my last breakup all too well. I deleted him from Facebook, but that wasn’t enough, I ended up blocking him. My friends really didn’t help at all, they invited my ex to every party and every time we would hit the town. They make it entirely too difficult to get over my ex when he was everywhere I went. He wanted to be friends after we broke up and I told him that we couldn’t. He didn’t understand why! My friends got upset with me when I didn’t acknowledge his presence.. He was my ex. I feel they need to take a look at this list.

  5. missshoes says:

    I moved. Made the decision 3.5 weeks later and moved 2 weeks after that. I didn’t like the state I was living in regardless of the ex. Him breaking up with me just gave me the excuse to move back to my home state. Couldn’t get out of there fast enough for me! (actually, the ex ending our relationship was the best thing for me. He wasn’t the right guy for me and it prompted a much closer relationship with my heavenly father)

  6. S says:

    I think that you give absolutely amazing advice and I really enjoy reading all of your articles. However, I hesitate to share them because there are constantly countless grammar mistakes. Please fix these, you have great things to say, it is a shame for the grammar mistakes to take away from that!

  7. Ashika says:

    Thanks for this advice, but i already did #6 which says ‘Don’t move’. hahaha I moved from my place to somewhere far in the city. Bad decision.

  8. anon yo! says:

    guilty of a fair few of these ! thing is he was my best friend before and i don’t want to loose him out of my life completely ! slowly becoming more sane but yes i must move on before this friendship can happen , acceptance is difficult especially when you would of quite happily spent the rest of your life with that person !

  9. debshree says:

    I am a patient of tuberculosis and evn though I’m on proper medication,he broke up with me after being together for four years…feeling so low

  10. iva says:

    i’m guilty of 2, 3, 5. Thank you for this article 🙂 its been almost two months already and this is still all new to me.

  11. A Loving Couple Shattered in l says:

    After the breakup, we both ruined our lives… he drank n drank n drank and I cried n was frustated, quit job, become hopeless. I still cant find a good reason to live, coz we admit we love each other but now he is so far.. n also fighting a battle with health issues – even I blame myself for all this misery to him. We dont deserve it… we were very successful, hardworking, happy couple – someone cursed us.. I just want to UNDO this…. i want god to come down and say HERE IS UR LIFE BACK TO U BOTH

    Dear Dale = can u pls pls pls tell me how to get a new life.. i want him back but its a bit too late… i cant fall for another coz of guilt as well. I cant stop lovin him. I dated a few guys but even on date, i packed a subway sandwich on the way back for him coz I knew he will be alone n unwell…. today I am here begging god for his survival… or asking god to give both of us freedom and a new life together again. 7 yrs of so called breakup and still i love him .. wats the use of such a life

  12. Mariana Kairav RL says:

    Well, I’ve had lots of haircuts after relationships problems or endings, and haven’t regretted it. For me changing my hair is like a statement, it helps me to move on. I agree with that about remaining “friends”, it doesn’t work, and never will, it’s only hurting each other, and pretending everything is ok.
    I find it hard to move on, even if I don’t see the guy again. I was talking to a friend about this today, I am too attached to people in my life. I think is like a paradigm, believing that I can’t leave some people out of my life. I’m working on changing that, ’cause I really need to travel lighter to achieve my dreams.
    Thank you for your articles, I just love your blog!!

  13. mary says:

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  15. 3rdTimeLucky says:

    Hi,
    Here’s my story. If anyone has some advise, please share me your thoughts, I would really appreciate it.

    I met this amazing woman 10months ago at a party. She’s a lot younger than me but her maturity shined far brighter than most girls my age (30). We fell in love very soon, after about 2 weeks or so. After about a month and a half we both had long term aspirations for our relationship.

    After a couple of months she became very clingy with me and quite overly sad (almost depressed) at little things that happened (probably because she didn’t have much else than me in her life), but I tried to reassure her that she had a lot of great things in her life: beautiful family, she’s smart, beautiful, young, and she had a boyfriend that loves her very much. During a small argument one day I broke up with her and she was devastated, crying a lot and asking me “why?” and “is this for real?” constantly. After a couple days we got back together and it was great.

    Then she started to neglect the other important things in her life like uni, family, and friends, and the clingyness became more intense. She also had a fallout with her only good friend just after I met her and she didn’t bother looking for new friends. I tried to tell her I needed, not space, but a little time to sort out my stuff during the week as I have a lot more responsibilities than her at my age. I didn’t want a break or a breakup at all, just a bit more “me time”. The effect was the opposite to my intension. So after a month or so I broke it off again, in a very calm situation after making dinner for her and having a chat. She took it a lot better but was still very upset inside I could tell.

    She ended up repairing her friendship with said friend and strengthening her family relationships quickly this time – from what she told me and from what I saw on FB. So once again I had second thoughts. Also, as I did what I did for her benefit, it wasn’t as if I was just playing yoyo with her. But that’s not what she thought.

    So I deleted her from my FB, commenced no contact and wrote her a letter. After 2 weeks of NC I sent the letter. 2 days later I called her, she didn’t pick up. I called her again 30mins later and she hangs up on me. Then I get a message 5 days later saying that she doesn’t think it’s necessary for us to see each other or discuss anything. We sent a couple of messages to each other in subtle disagreement and her last message was this, “I’m not afraid of anything. I don’t want to see you, and we don’t need to talk about anything. It’s over. Please stop contacting me.”

    If I peruse this any further she will surely contact the police, even though I’m barely harassing her with 2 calls and 2sms (+ the short text conversation we had). I am devastated now, I love her so much and I have truly never met a more amazing woman in my life. We wanted to marry each other and have kids together. I know what a lot of people say about guys like me on the net – that I’m a game player and I don’t know what I want – but the truth is some people need the water to run dry before they miss it – that is why it’s a famous quote isn’t it? Coz we’re all human?; and how can a relationship thrive properly if one person is neglecting their future? She is very young and I didn’t want to spoil the life ahead of her. So much of what I have read on many relationship forums is man hating and saying that all guys that break up and want her back are liars and they don’t know what they want but the truth is that we are all different and some guys deserve a second or third chance.

    Is there any chance for us?

    • daniel says:

      Oh man, this looks like a copy of what i’ve recently been through. Only difference is I’m 26 and she’s 20. OK, it’s somewhat more different, because I just came up from a long term relationship (my fiance left me after 6 years for who i thought was my best buddy. it fucked me up.).

      I met this girl and we just clicked. Things moved pretty fast and soon reached that point where I needed some space to make some order in my life (after the breakup i relocated) and rethink my perspectives. I told her there’s nothing wrong with her, but I need to try and fix myself before I can invest myself fully in this new thing. She didn’t take it so well, she was really clingy, just like the girl you’ve written about.

      A few weeks into this new relationship, I got really depressed (I tend to have these sudden episodes where I remember about my fiance and it really messes me up) and decided the best thing to do is to visit my parents. That way I won’t get to be irritable around the girl, I’d keep away from alcohol and other destructive stuff. We went out for coffee the day before my departure. We had a really great time, she kept saying she’ll miss me and asked me to make sure I get better. The time with my parents helped a lot, nothing strange happened and it was only for a weekend.

      So I got back in town on Monday and every since it’s like shit hit the fan. We scheduled to see each a few times, but each time something came up (work for me, classes for her – she’s a med student) and didn’t get to meet. And that’s kinda it, things simply got cold and soon we started arguing for no particular reason. Every damn conversation ended up in a fight, to the point that I felt afraid to call her, in fear that we’ll end up fighting again. I really don’t know what happened, I really didn’t want for things to turn out this way and I really wish I could find a way to get her back. Get her back, because we broke up, obviously. She just refused to see me again and every time i asked her out she flatly rejected the invitation.

      So that’s kinda my story, somewhat similar to yours. I’m not sure there’s a chance for either of us, mate. And it sucks, I mean, I try to keep myself distracted, because trying to contact her ends up bad and only hurts my chances. And I assume it’s the same for you, from what I’ve read.

      I guess only time will tell. Shitty cliche, but I really don’t think there’s anything to do about it. Try to focus on yourself (that’s what I do and it kinda helps) and on other people (help them, that is)

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  26. LG says:

    I just did something stupid, I facebooked messaged his daughter. Just to say I though her new profile picture was beautiful and tell her I was sorry that her Dad and I were no longer together. She messaged me back and said “quit stalking peoples pages and you wouldn’t of thought about it” Her reply doesn’t really make and sense because I have blocked his whole family except for her. I haven’t messaged anyone else so not sure where that came from, but she is young and I hurt her father so she is lashing out. Oh well, my fault and maybe I was stalking a bit. Break ups suck at any age – I am 51.

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  31. jovy says:

    Hi, im from the Philippines and had just broken up with my gf of 11 years because she cheated on me with her married boss. Stupid thing i did… When the wife contacted me to let me know how she felt about their closeness, i told her things i know i shouldnt have about what i know happened between her husband and my gf. My gf found out and now shes the one whose furious and hates me! I know i shouldnt have done it. Now im more miserable.

  32. Tarun says:

    I want to confess something…. I was dating a divorcee for a year… Her family and she herself pushed me to get married asap coz age was the factor.. my parents were against it….. I fought with them for 3 months to meet her and finally they agreed to give a thought… After that my ex got cold feet and cited no reasons… She said she wants to be with me but does not want to get married.. i said ill give you time and I understand you… After few days she told me she needs time for herself since she has been into lot of relationships and wants to take some time off and needs space.. i gave her space to which she used to message me in every two days …. i asked her to stop that because it affects me as well… After some time i asked her to meet me to official close this coz i came to know about her past and her trends and was very hurt for it.. She refused and said i need time for myself and i am not doing anything…Please give me time .. She kept on calling me in 10-15 days and I refused to pick up the calls coz I was feeling tortured for this… I was her friend and was in deep love with her since marriage was on cards so I told her that Ill wait for u for some time and them i will move on… I told her to give me final closure and asked her if she is involved with somebody to which she said no and questioned me being possessive… Nobody contacted each other for a month and den i messaged her to meet me for dinner to which she refused.. i did not call her nor did i messaged her after dat … She called me after 10 days but I did not pick up coz I was angry and wanted to get over her… (She had done exactly similar stuffs with past 4 boyfriends and I know she is a commitment phobic)… I was coping up on my anger and was trying to move on until one day i saw her kissing the same person from my office which i had asked about… I got shocked and couldn’t get that sight over me.. I got drunk broke side mirrors of her car and wrote something abusive on the same… Everybody know this and I am feeling guilty for the same. But I am angry on her that she moved on in like 15 days.

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